I've ridden an emotional roller-coaster over the last 24 hours:

Good: My job is funded next year, despite massive layoffs at the University of Kansas.
Bad: They cut my summer salary for this year, despite its being my busiest time of the year.

Good: Fetish-Kitty's illness has been diagnosed and treatment has begun - she's already feeling better.
Bad: Waking to find bloody urine in the bathroom before hearing the diagnosis.

Good: Catching up with high school friends. Facebook serves a purpose.
Bad: The reason we're getting in touch is that we lost a dear friend, Tim Haukos, in a small house fire.

A little about Tim: He played Oscar in Ortonville High School's production of "The Odd Couple" (I played Murray the cop and did set-building and special effects). He performed humorous speeches for our Forensics team and fought fiercely for our Debate team. He helped me build and launch rockets for the Ortonville Space Program (including one that made it at least 30 feet into the air before gloriously exploding - hence the icon choice). We played countless games of chess after school in his living room. He once performed a flawless imitation of a fountain-cherub in the entryway to my parents' house. I'm not sure if he got me in more trouble or vice-versa. He was hilarious and kind, crazy and well-liked. Tim was troubled in many ways - partly why I loved him.

RIP, Tim. Here's hoping you find some peace.

Chris
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From: (Anonymous)

Tim


I was on the stage crew for that play! His humor and timing were incredible. I can envision the fountain-cherub stance & it actually made me giggle out loud. He was always doing silly things to make us all laugh. Yes, he definitely battled some inner demons and it always broke my heart to see him struggle...although I can't even begin to imagine what we *didn't* see. I hope he has at last found peace. Wish he could have found it here though. :(

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com

Re: Tim


He had awesome timing and a great ear for what would make a particular person laugh.

From: [identity profile] siro-gravity.livejournal.com


jeez, what a stressful bunch of stuff. i'm so sorry about your friend.

i'm glad fetish-kitty's ok. i clicked over to her pix, and that is one adorable cat!! i love the one where she is wrapped around her neck!!!

my class was also cut for the summer (they're doing a remodel of the photo lab). i'm always scared to be without that paycheck, but at least when you know in advance you can plan ahead for it. and honestly, the time off is also really welcome.

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com


Thank you. Yeah, Fetish is a real lover; her lack of cuddle-ness is obvious when she's sick. I know what you mean about welcoming a bit of layoff... unfortunately, I'm still responsible for a lot of job-related things over the summer; I just need to make sure it's not enough that KU thinks it can continue to get slave labor.

From: [identity profile] professormass.livejournal.com


I'm really sorry to hear about your friend, Chris, and the troubles at work.

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com


Thanks, Ben. I think everyone should stop having to deal with work troubles.

From: [identity profile] nataliesee.livejournal.com


Too many goods and bads for one comment!

I'm so sorry about your friend. Thanks for sharing the memories.

And yay for Miss Fetish having a diagnosis. Here's hoping the treatment does the trick.

And finally WOOHOO!(-1) SO glad your (partial)funding came through. :)

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com


I tried to limit their number to just the most-relevant-now stuff ;-)

Thank you.

From: [identity profile] garyomaha.livejournal.com


Chris, I'm sorry for your loss.

I've noticed life is full of the roller-coaster. It seems for every good thing, something else comes along to offset. (I suppose that's being pessimistic; I could have framed it the other way...)

Anyway, take care.


From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com


Thank you. You're right; there's always good with the bad - we just need to keep our eyes open. Interestingly, hearing about Tim's death brought up many happy memories. I wonder if that's an organic defense system.

From: [identity profile] amysisson.livejournal.com


Oh wow. I'm so sorry about your friend.

I also hope your kitty recovers quickly. And that your employer doesn't expect you to work all summer without salary. The economy continues to affect so many people I know, yet other people I know still deny there's a problem.

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com


Thank you.

Unfortunately, I'm still in charge of many things over the summer - things not explicitly on my contract, such as our not-for-credit SF programs and the Campbell Conference. To prevent KU from thinking it can do this again next year, I need to not do for-credit teaching-related stuff and let the university recognize what they're losing.

Irritating.

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com


Thank you.

States need to stop thinking about education as the place to cut. What I'd really love to see is a student backlash, which is only now starting to bubble up. So many other fine places to cut (say, a couple of wars that are costing a bit more than all the other cuts, combined).

From: [identity profile] purpledumbass.livejournal.com


Sorry to hear about your friend's passing.

Glad to see positive stuff in there for you too though, especially on the job situation and Fetish-Kitty.

From: [identity profile] rougewench.livejournal.com


Sincere condolences for your loss.

Glad to hear you still have a gig (even with the downsides) and that Fetish is getting better.


D.

From: [identity profile] rougewench.livejournal.com


The only positive light I think you can find would be "still have a job".

However, I will hope that somehow the one door closed will allow another opportunity to find you.


D.

From: [identity profile] xjenavivex.livejournal.com


I am sorry about Tim's passing. Thank you for sharing your memories with us.

I am really sorry about your summer situation.

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com


Thank you.

I'm going to treat the summer cut as an opportunity to finish a bunch of writing, so it's not an entirely bad thing!

From: [identity profile] yanbaoqin.livejournal.com


Sorry to hear that so much is coming down on you. I wish you well, and hope things get better. :(

From: [identity profile] ericreynolds.livejournal.com


Chris, really sorry to hear about your friend Tim.

Glad to hear you weren't part of the layoffs and Fetish-Kitty is doing better.

From: (Anonymous)

Tim


Hi Chris, I wanted to say I share your pain of Tim's passing. I know you were particularly close to him. Hopefully we can use this as an opportunity to reach out to the people we lost touch with. Tim was an old soul when we knew him and we will celebrate the joy of having laughed so hard. We were privileged to know him. Make it a great day.
-Doug Julius

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com

Re: Tim


Thanks, Doug. And good to hear from you!

You're right about him, that getting to be friends with Tim was a joy. I hope he got as much pleasure out of our friendship, too.

From: [identity profile] chronovore.livejournal.com


I'm enjoying the math you did about 1/4 being better than 0/4: I'll let my mom know that one; as a retired math/science teacher, she appreciates any jokes related to the subjects.

Glad to hear about your cat.

I don't know what to say about your friend. I'm happy you have so many good memories to share. Thanks for that.

From: [identity profile] mckitterick.livejournal.com


'Strue: any fourths is larger than no fourths. And so on.

Thank you. I've been realizing that a majority of my happy or funny memories of high school include Tim.
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